Tuesday, August 12, 2025

The Empty Room, Full of Joy πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚


It was October 1998. My little cutie had turned one just a couple of months earlier. Tall, thin, and bursting with energy from day one, she had been ticking all the milestones — turning over, crawling, nodding — right on schedule. But walking? That one seemed to be taking its sweet time.

 

We were staying in a modest 1BHK rented flat — cozy but cramped. Wherever my daughter turned, there was something to hold onto — the cot , the teapoy table,, a chair, the wall. Every attempt to stand up led her to cling onto something. She had the strength, she had the charm, but just not the space or courage to take that first step independently.

 

As days passed, my concern grew. I took her to a couple of pediatricians, hoping to understand if something was wrong. Each time, the doctors gave her a clean bill of health. She would flash them her signature smile πŸ™‚ — that "Mom, why are you embarrassing me?" kind of look — and I would return home just as confused, a little relieved, and a little more hopeful.

 

Then one day, a sudden idea struck me — a small shift that made a big difference. Why not give her the space she never had?

 

I cleared out the entire hall — chairs, teapoy table, cot — everything. The room looked bare, but to me, it was full of possibilities. I placed her at one corner of the room, and I stood at the other. I knelt down, stretched my arms out wide, and called her.

 

“Come to Amma…”

 

She looked at me, hesitant, curious.

 

And then — One step.

Another step.

And another!

 

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Little feet, one after the other, finding balance on their own. Her face lit up as she clapped joyfully, moving toward me in tiny wobbly strides. When she finally reached me and fell into my arms, we both erupted in laughter. That hug — oh, that hug — was pure magic.

 

It wasn’t just about walking. It was about letting go of fear, about trust, about creating room — literally and emotionally — for growth.

 

Looking back, that day remains deep-rooted in my memory. The worry, the doubt, and then — one small idea that changed everything. The empty room had gifted us a moment of joy so full, so complete, I still carry it in my heart ❤️ and cherish it.

--Devi BS

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